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The Vindictive Narcissist
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. August 29, 2012. July 28, 2015. Understand their psychology and what drives them. As a follow-up to my last post. I thought I’d provide a psychological portrait of the vindictive narcissist, making use of the concepts of projection, shame according to my particular views. And narcissistic defenses against it. Inspired by ...
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Psychological Obstacles to Grief and the Grieving Process
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. Psychological Obstacles to Grief and the Grieving Process. Rules of the Road. April 20, 2011. April 21, 2011. Extensive tests at the vet school revealed late-stage metastatic cancer. No hope of any kind and we had her put down. The rest of the family felt relieved to know the actual cause, to accept her death with...IR...
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The Invisible Client
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. The Client Who Wants to Remain Invisible. September 28, 2012. September 28, 2012. Several readers responding to my recent post about a client who felt invisible. Have asked me to discuss the opposite experience — the person who fears being seen and desperately wants to remain. Or displace that feeling onto their appearanc...
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Mixed Emotions: Loving and Hating the Same Person
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. Mixed Emotions: Loving and Hating the Same Person. Rules of the Road. October 13, 2010. April 3, 2013. Each of us has a mixture of feelings toward those people we’re intimate with, and learning how to tolerate ambivalence is a part of growing up. Small children sometimes scream I hate you! To ourselves until the feelings ...
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The Healing of Shame
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. Pride and the Healing of Shame. May 10, 2011. January 23, 2012. Because I write and think so much about the psychology of shame. Stan, a middle-aged married man, has struggled with unbearable shame for most of his life and has relied on the typical defenses against shame. Into her, he can see her with clarity and compassi...
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Second Thoughts on Sliding Scale Payment - After Psychotherapy
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. Second Thoughts on Sliding Scale Payment. December 6, 2014. December 20, 2014. A little research the next day confirmed my suspicion. I found several articles discussing a major shift in the patterns of charitable giving, including this one from NRP. Where a young philanthropist described a pervasive attitude he had encou...
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About the Author - After Psychotherapy
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. September 21, 2010. May 15, 2015. California Clinical Psychologist License No. 12878. Joseph Burgo, Ph.D., has practiced psychotherapy for more than 30 years, holding licenses as a marriage and family therapist and clinical psychologist. He is the author of Why Do I Do That? This site condenses Joe’s insights garnered ove...
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New Tingles from an Odd Altered State - Peggy Payne
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New Tingles from an Odd Altered State - Peggy Payne. Cobalt Blue: A Novel. A novel for courageous readers and seekers, COBALT BLUE is a turbulent, gorgeous ride into sacred sex. New Tingles from an Odd Altered State. I thought I’d heard of every route to an altered state, every alternative technology. Being married to a psychologist who specializes in clinical hypnosis. And writing a novel about kundalini. 8220;How to Have a ‘Brain Orgasm'”),. The New York Times. 3d render of Brain functions, synapses.
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Attachment Theory and the Healing Psychotherapy Relationship
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. Attachment Theory and the Healing Psychotherapy Relationship. December 21, 2011. December 21, 2011. In the first part. Of this series, I discussed Allan Schore’s video about early neurological damage resulting from failures in the attachment relationship between mother and baby. In the second part. In this way, the therap...
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The Ones Who Let Go - After Psychotherapy
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8220;Just when we had girded ourselves against the sociopath next door, Burgo alerts us to the narcissist across the street. What a neighborhood! 8221; - The New York Times Book Review. The Ones Who Let Go. May 11, 2015. Joe is the author and the owner of AfterPsychotherapy.com, one of the leading online mental health resources on the internet. Be sure to connect with him on Google. Caitlyn Jenner and a Whole Lot of Questions. Australia-New Zealand edition of TNYK. December 1, 2015. December 3, 2015.
