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Sassy Britches | The Fabulous Misadventures of Sassy Britches
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The Fabulous Misadventures of Sassy Britches. The misadventures of a swinging, Polyamorous, Bisexual wife. Author Archives: Sassy Britches. Loneliness, unloved, under appreciated? August 2, 2016. What’s the issue deep down that’s causing me to feel so lonely, unloved and taken for granted? Or is it where I feel Beard pulling away and putting up walls cause he feels like he’s “loosing” (his word) to the relationship Hunky Hulk and I do have. Maybe me having a relationship with Hunky Hulk is bringing up th...
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The Failure to See the Problem – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. The Failure to See the Problem. January 1, 2017. In a funny twist, I met someone, several months ago, off a dating site. We had coffee, had a great chat, found a shared interest, and he joined the group Nick and I were in together. It was several months later that he mentioned he’s actually married. Separated. I (or whoever agreed to seeing him) is once again Number Two. I really, really like you, but….my wife. Why even get into that situation? He explains in ...
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inherentflaws – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. Being the Dirty Little Secret. January 31, 2017. In Being a Secondary. The Failure to See the Problem. January 1, 2017. On Lies, 3. December 31, 2016. The lies continue even now. It's been a very, very long time since I broke up with him, and in that time, he has repeatedly continued communication with me. When I've contacted him for business reasons, he's repeatedly turned that contact personal, telling me about his difficult life and what he's doing ...I dis...
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Poly and Marriage: Part 1 – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. Poly and Marriage: Part 1. June 17, 2016. I recently came across an article by one of the poly greats, about five myths of polyamory. Number one, she addressed the question of whether monogamy or polyamory is ‘better’ in terms of relationship longevity, happiness, and health. First, I beg to differ with her on the unspoken, underlying assumption:. That the measue of polyamory is whether the couple. Does well, and is happy and stays together. Thing I see to hap...
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Poly and Marriage: The Couple – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. Poly and Marriage: The Couple. December 23, 2016. December 23, 2016. In my last post, I talked about how poly works for the secondary partners. From what I’ve seen, not so well. There’s a reason the secondary relationships usually end by two to two and a half years, and rarely last as long as five. For polys, however,. Is usually the focus of the question. Poly work for the couple? Had a hot meal ready for him just once after a really hard day? A small gift or...
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Manipulated from the Start – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. Manipulated from the Start. May 16, 2016. It’s probably just as well that I’ve been too busy to write about any of this lately. But recent events once again have my mind spinning. I have come to believe that in the Venn diagram where poly overlaps narcissist, these people deliberately choose others who are at low moments in their lives and more susceptible than most to affection, attention, a semblance of love and being swept off their feet. You are commenting...
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On Lies, 3 – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. On Lies, 3. December 31, 2016. In that communication, I find there are more lies. He tells me over and over that he’s doing marketing for his work. And yet, the places he does his marketing are easy to look at. Nothing every changes at these sites, channels, or accounts. Or, should I say rarely. I think, though, that people also lie to themselves. They convince. Before they lie to others. Does he tell himself he’s. Going to do what they said. I ask again: why?
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My Personal Life Doesn’t Affect…. – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. My Personal Life Doesn’t Affect…. June 3, 2016. We hear it said a lot in today’s world: What consenting adults do doesn’t affect anyone else. What we do in our personal lives has no bearing on our professional lives or our business, or anyone else. Do not mean to him,. Has once again started sending me warm and personal e-mails, telling me what’s going on his personal life, rather than sticking to business. I have mentioned in an earlier post, I have a relativ...
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Infatuation, Intimacy, Love and Lies – Inherent Flaws
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A Second Look inside the World of Polyamory. Infatuation, Intimacy, Love and Lies. December 29, 2016. A number of things come together in my thoughts today:. The words on a blog describing narcissists:. You fall in in love. I stop at infatuation. A poly blogger talking about the fear of falling in love again after being hurt and my own realization this reluctance to ever get hurt like this again is impacting my decisions in dating. Stop at infatuation, because he lacks the ability to truly. The commenter...