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What Remains Behind: Question For You About Plane Anxiety
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Saturday, May 14, 2011. Question For You About Plane Anxiety. I am a horribly anxious flyer on planes and a comment once made to me by a pilot and therapist on a fear of flying board made me wonder if this fits any of you. I convince myself it is code from the pilot to the flight attendants of imminent danger. Seeing other planes also flying in the distance? Fast ...
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What Remains Behind: When Former Nutjob Employers Give You Lemons......
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Saturday, June 4, 2011. When Former Nutjob Employers Give You Lemons. Hmmm Isn't it interesting how once we become enlightened about NPD we have a radar for this. Narc-dar. And having a job that paid the bills (DH and I have equitable job salaries) is another example of what I have to do as part of my role to provide and do what is best as a parent and partner.
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What Remains Behind: Two Steps Back?
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Tuesday, May 10, 2011. But I don't feel the same anymore. Ever since she said horrible things to me and then about me and then never denied when I wrote to her about the lack of respect for me (and gave examples), and her meanness. My heart feels better when we don't talk. Things in the "material world? End of April I got this email:. I did not respond. Unfortunat...
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What Remains Behind: January 2011
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Wednesday, January 26, 2011. Strong Memory of Being Used. I have a memory of something cruel that my mom did to me that I have thought of often. I may sound like a broken record, but as a mother of a 12 year old I cannot imagine my DH or me doing anything even close to this to one of our children. Always the protector of my mother……I just sat there....I donR...
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What Remains Behind: This Summer I've Only Dealt with What Matters Most
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Friday, August 19, 2011. This Summer I've Only Dealt with What Matters Most. Since my last post after I was laid off from work I've been on an awesome road trip, another family trip to see many nice in-laws, visited my 90-yr-old GM for 5 days, doing things with the kids every day, and looking for the right job for me. Earlier in the summer when we returned from va...
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What Remains Behind: August 2011
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It has taken 40 years to put a name to my mother's personality disorder.and how I somehow emerged as the family champion, and broke the chain. Tuesday, August 30, 2011. Who Else Would Do This To Their Teenager? My NM hops out of the car DRESSED IN MY SCHOOL UNIFORM. And as if she is acting in a play she says loudly, but to no one in particular, "HI! I'm here for the dance! And she is sort of jumping up and down in a perky way, playing her role of a school girl. Friday, August 19, 2011. Since April she's ...
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Breaking the Tyrant's Rod: Commenting Rules
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Breaking the Tyrant's Rod. My journey toward freedom from the trauma of a narcissistic mother. This is a personal blog. As such, free speech is a privilege, not a right. It is a privilege I can take away from any one at any time if the need arises. To facilitate this, I screen all comments. This allows me to protect my identity better and allows me to prevent the posting of harmful, hateful, or otherwise nasty remarks. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). What Narcs Hate the Most. My Aikido Experience So Far.
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Freedom from Toxic People: There is no N in Christmas!
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Freedom from Toxic People. Letting go of toxic people (parents, spouses, family, and friends) with honor. Friday, December 24, 2010. There is no N in Christmas! Last year I would be freaking out and say, It is impossible to get ready for Christmas! I have run out of time! If you want Christmas you have to Create Christmas and you have to be open to Experience Christmas. Not the Christmas others have defined, but one that is meaningful to you, to each one of us. Christmas is about Christ and it is His.
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Freedom from Toxic People: Growing in Wisdom (part 2)
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Freedom from Toxic People. Letting go of toxic people (parents, spouses, family, and friends) with honor. Friday, January 27, 2012. Growing in Wisdom (part 2). Read, Growing in Wisdom part 1. To put this event in proper context). To releave her pain as much as possible,. And she said with a slightly disturbed attitude, "for hurting my hand." I asked her, Was that really my fault? Sometimes it is painful to grow in wisdom. GOD is doing something in our life, then we put our hand to it, trying to interfere...
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Freedom from Toxic People: Family -- redefine it to fine it!
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Freedom from Toxic People. Letting go of toxic people (parents, spouses, family, and friends) with honor. Saturday, June 9, 2012. Family - redefine it to fine it! 46 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him. 47 Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you.”. 48 He replied to him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers? Take Every Thought Captive. Had As GOD tells us there is a season and tim...
