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The Great Mate Debate: Stop Trying So Hard!
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The Great Mate Debate. January 11, 2008. Stop Trying So Hard! Topic: What advice would you give a friend looking to find love in 2008? Posted by: Aly Walansky. I think my advice is to stop trying. That sounds awfully defeatest for a relationship blog, but the point is that as long as you run around looking for love (in all the wrong places), it's going to elude you. Relationships and love take (and deserve) work. But meeting people is the fun part. Just have fun, be yourself, and let it happen. When your...
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The Great Mate Debate: How to Win a Fight By Not Winning
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The Great Mate Debate. January 07, 2008. How to Win a Fight By Not Winning. Couple Fights: What’s the one bit of advice you’d like to share about making them productive, not destructive? Posted by: Evan Marc Katz. Fact: NOBODY wants to be wrong. Wrong is invalidating, emasculating, and embarrassing. And anyone who tells you that you’re wrong has already lost you as an audience. Which means there’s no room for listening or peaceful negotiation. Wrong can ONLY mean a screaming match. This doesn’t mean that...