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On Stillness: January 2015
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Saturday, January 10, 2015. View from our townhouse in Ucluelet. First day was wet and rainy. Next day was beautiful and sunny, with a big blue sky. Birthday cake. I didn't bring supplies so we bought a box of cake mix and made icing from melted chocolate. Not the world's most amazing cake but totally fine for the circumstances. However next year I will be more prepared! Cool thistle. Never thought I'd write those words. Glow in the woods.
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On Stillness: Experts
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Monday, April 13, 2015. Recently I read this recommendation in an article about stillbirth research:. The onus for fetal death registration and burial arrangements should default to the healthcare provider/institution". Really. Is this "service" to be offered to parents of older children who die? What about babies born alive who subsequently die? Will parents of adult children who die be offered this default service as well? Can be. ...
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On Stillness: Withnail & I and Me
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Sunday, March 15, 2015. Withnail and I and Me. When I was in my 20s, I read Richard E. Grant's film diaries entitled With Nails. Recently I took With Nails. She is handed to my stricken wife first, and had I all the powers of Mars and miracles I would give this child life.She is warm but dead. And PERFECT. Ten toes, ten fingers. Eyes, mouth, all. Broken. No breath. Our hearts are broken and will we ever. Misleads people. As if stillb...
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On Stillness: May 2015
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Sunday, May 10, 2015. When Mothers Day Means Remembering Loss. To whom it may concern:. When our grandparents or parents die, do we think of them, and refer to them, as people who never were? Links to this post. Wednesday, May 06, 2015. The thing is, I think a separate bereaved Mother's Day only works if your child died at any time after. Much space. Isolation. Avoidance. Exclusion. These things exist as well for people w...Have a baby&#...
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On Stillness: March 2015
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Wednesday, March 18, 2015. Yesterday a new question popped into my head:. Did he starve to death, or was he asphyxiated? But in the end, he will still be dead. Forever. Links to this post. Sunday, March 15, 2015. Withnail and I and Me. When I was in my 20s, I read Richard E. Grant's film diaries entitled With Nails. Recently I took With Nails. She is handed to my stricken wife first, and had I all the powers of Mars and miracles I would ...
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On Stillness: Why We Run
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Monday, April 20, 2015. It was a beautiful sunny day as Peter and I set out with our daughter for this year's Mini Sun Run. It's the smaller kids run that accompanies Canada's largest 10K road race. This is our 3rd year participating. It's quite a festive event, and perfect for families. Our daughter enjoys it. Every year as the SLC. Daughter: "I do have a brother but he died.". Friend: "But where is. Daughter: "He died.". BC (British Co...
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On Stillness: New Question
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Wednesday, March 18, 2015. Yesterday a new question popped into my head:. Did he starve to death, or was he asphyxiated? But in the end, he will still be dead. Forever. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Withnail and I and Me. Bereaved Parent Support – my son. Glow in the woods. I want to tell them. 8220;Hell” by Kelly Farley. My Forever Love, Ethan. BC (British Columbia) Bereavement Helpline. Children's Grief Awareness Day.
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On Stillness: March 2014
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Life after the death of our baby, Toren. We grieve because we love. Friday, March 28, 2014. Sometimes in the night, our daughter comes into our bed. This morning when she woke up, she wanted to play a game. She usually comes up with some kind of game first thing. She threw the covers over her head and said, "Pretend you were waiting for your egg to hatch, but before the baby could be born, hunters came! I threw my arm over her and said, "Be gone hunters! And I roared. Then peep, peep, peep. But I didn't ...
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