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Minding her language – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2012/09/11/minding-her-language
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. An open letter to my girl, re-published from my Informed Consent blog. It’s sooooooo hard. And it seems sooooo false. (she thinks she can wheedle almost anything out of me by playing the slightly pouty, slightly sultry card). But Darling I said I’ll be able to introduce you to the Princess Royal (not that I’m on nodding terms with the aforementioned royal personage). Err OK, but. But she thought...
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Totally covering totallycoverme’s fou-fou – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/06/09/totally-covering-totallycovermes-fou-fou
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. Totally covering totallycoverme’s fou-fou. I’ve told the story here. Chatting with tcm’s master, he expressed delight in the thing and, as a big, big thank you for his lending me tcm to play with I decided to make him something more permanent. This is my description of the evening. The quotes are totallycoverme’s reactions ( and this is what she thought of the photos. To help protect her a littl...
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If love is chaste, if pity comes from heaven – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/09/05/if-love-is-chaste-if-pity-comes-from-heaven
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. If love is chaste, if pity comes from heaven. Today is the fifth anniversary of our black pudding day. If love is chaste, if pity comes from heaven,. If fortune, good or ill, is shared between. Two equal loves, and if one wish can govern. Two hearts, and nothing evil intervene:. If one soul joins two bodies fast for ever. And if, on the same wings, these two can fly,. I possess the submission of...
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BDSM ethics and protocols – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/bdsm-ethics-and-protocol
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. BDSM ethics and protocols. I’m interested in this. These are links to articles on this blog that touch on this topic – and are our own views and practices. Our Umbrella Hard Limit. Ten commandments for our D/s relationship. The Informed Consent Principle. Asimov’s three laws of submission. Marcus Aurelius and a recipe for D/s life. Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window). Adding a third ...
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BDSM Rights – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/1022-2
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. We support the informed consent. Informedconsent.co.uk was the UK website that created a sense of community for UK BDSM people. It was immensely successful in this and many regret its passing. It has ceased to work in this way. But great alternatives exist –. Take a look at Fetbook. Or Sadism and Masochism. We hope all who read this will support this new site. Click to share on Google (Opens in ...
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The Night Before The Head Shave. – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/08/30/the-night-before-the-head-shave
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. The Night Before The Head Shave. 8220;I am writing this the night before the head shave. I am sure that I will go ahead with it. To the very best of my knowledge I believe if I was gonna pull out of it I’d have done so by now so as not to mess with peoples heads, time, energy and possibly emotions. 8221; but there’s something about this that feels right enough to go ahead with it. Sir tells me t...
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Losing the personal pronoun – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/08/27/losing-the-personal-pronoun
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. Losing the personal pronoun. Both of the people I have a dynamic with (my partner, curvy bottom and our toy) have consented not to use their personal pronouns within our dynamic. This means in interactions with me, each other and with anyone in a public D/s context. It does not mean altering their language at work, out and about, or with friends (even kinky friends) in a non D/s context. I don&#...
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That sweet little shaving brush – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/07/23/that-sweet-little-shaving-brush
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. That sweet little shaving brush. Spontaneously, Sir holds a small shaving brush in front of me. This holds massive and clear. One thing that did amaze me is that I felt so consenting and ready for this that I would have happily stayed put and stayed quiet had the shaving happened a bit more then a bit more, maybe even up until it looked like one of them bowl cuts what ye old monks have! I had no...
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Human Black Pudding – the recipe – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2012/09/05/human-black-pudding-the-recipe
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. Human Black Pudding – the recipe. I can’t really remember how it started except that, as you do, there she was bouncing up and down and I told her she was good enough to eat (as you do). She expressed the view she’d ike to remain intact and I think I said something like “well, there is always black pudding. 8220; I wasn’t serious. Really – I wasn’t. 70mls our own blood. 1/4 onion, finely chopped.
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They’re NOT my orgasms – A dominant and submissive life
https://belasarius.com/2014/06/18/theyre-not-my-orgasms
A dominant and submissive life. By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple. A picture of your kink. They’re NOT my orgasms. I was first instructed by Belasarius to rub myself off after I did a first blog announcing that I wanted to serve him and curvy bottom as a toy. The instruction was unexpected but I think that’s why it made me want to do it all the more so. I do so love to be made so speechless by an instruction that I find myself able to follow it so automatically and slavishly. I don...
